This powerful insight from Jay Shetty challenges one of the most common relationship beliefs: that men hope women never change, and women hope men will. What sounds harmless actually reveals a deeper issue—control instead of respect. True love isn’t about freezing someone in who they are today or reshaping them into who you want them to be. Real respect means honoring what a person values right now while allowing space for growth, purpose, and evolution. This message is essential for anyone navi